Author: Liu Yingya this marriage, it is clear that there are two problems, one man lost his position in marriage, and second, in the absence of emotional interaction in the relationship. Both parties in a marriage must have their own positions in the marriage, and to find their own self-identity, it also requires relationship and emotional interaction. This is a kind of respect and love. In fact, both are achievements for each other. 1. Self-identity allows each person’s expression in a relationship to be a mutual achievement. Expression, in addition to the interaction and integration of the relationship, also has its own position in the relationship. The man lost his position in the marriage. A man needs to be a man in a relationship, have a position that belongs to a man, take on the role of a man, and express the role of a man. Through these, men’s self-identity is confirmed and responded to in their relationship. This is an affirmation and encouragement for men, and it is also a nourishment for men. For a man, confirming his male self-identity and protecting his male self-identity is a very important thing for him and an important thing for his life. Ignoring, attacking, and attacking a man’s self-identity is an impressive injury and trauma to a man. One of the best blows is that I don’t need you. You are not as good as I am also a blow. Everyone has their own cognition and positioning of the roles and functions of men and women. But deep in people’s hearts, they always respect traditions and customs, that is, men can take care, care, and protect women. Or he has such possibilities and opportunities. A man has no place or role in this marriage, and this relationship does not confirm his male self-identity. 2. Relationship interaction If two people have no real relationship interaction, what kind of thing is it like in a marriage? It is a real isolation, loneliness, and coldness. On the surface, this marriage seemed to be affectionate. The woman did not demand or dispute, and the woman also provided money to moisturize him. Family life seems to be going well. But in fact, their relationship lacks substantial interaction. Women are busy with their own business, earning their own money, the connection with the man is for him to spend money, as well as the formal family life. Men have no careers, they work their own jobs. Pick up girls to enrich your life and soul. There is no substantial and meaningful intersection, blending and companionship between two people. Two people are not one, in their respective life trajectories. Little attention and need for each other. Women have no need for men here, and men have no need for women. There is no spiritual dependence and need for each other. There is no fusion. But this kind of integration is the essential need of human beings, if not, at least it will be melancholy. Their relationship lacks substance. Men and women have their own positions and positions in marriage, and they have substantial relationships and interactions, which are achievements for each other. This kind of achievement makes the relationship lasting and profound. I am Liu Yingya, a psychological consultant. I use psychology to analyze love, marriage, family life and make intimate relationships a classroom for self-growth. Welcome to follow. Liu Yingya: Master of Psychology, National Level 2 Psychological Counselor. A researcher on the emotional family of both sexes in marriage and love, and a researcher on the growth of personal, physical and mental. More than ten years of psychology work, focusing on family relationships and personal growth.  .
Langzhongtianxia & nbsp. Yimei Taohuayuan College has only one body, and the food and medicine are all transported to the whole body through the same digestive system. But because there is only one body, it is easy to affect each other, reduce nutrients or drug effects, and even cause serious discomfort or side effects, forming “interaction.” Among these interactions, some only need to stagger the time of taking, while others are best not to eat together. Here are 5 common interactions. & nbsp.5 & nbsp. The interaction of big drugs and food & nbsp. 1. Oatmeal & hypolipidemic drugs Although oatmeal is a very healthy food, the ingredients in it, oat bran (OatBran), contain water-soluble fiber β-polyglucose, which can help lower blood Low- and medium-density lipoprotein cholesterol (commonly known as bad cholesterol), commonly eaten by people, is a very good health food. However, the high fiber content of oat bran will reduce the absorption rate of statin (statin) blood lipid-lowering drugs, which will affect the efficacy of drugs, so it is best not to eat them together. Practice: After eating oatmeal for 2-4 hours, take hypolipidemic drugs. Second, grapefruit, grapefruit & hypolipidemic drugs Many people know that grapefruit cannot be taken with hypolipidemic drugs, but in fact, grapefruit and other citrus fruits cannot. These kinds of fruits will affect the metabolic enzymes in the gastrointestinal tract, making the medicine difficult to metabolize, resulting in the blood lipid-lowering drugs always being present in the gastrointestinal tract, enhancing the concentration of absorption, leading to low cholesterol in the blood. After eating grapefruit and grapefruit, the effect can be maintained for about 4 hours, and it will take 2 days before it is completely metabolized. Therefore, it is recommended that people who take regular lipid-lowering drugs should not eat it. Practice: People who regularly take hypolipidemic drugs are advised not to eat at all. 3. Milk, calcium tablets, health foods containing minerals (such as iron, magnesium, calcium) & many medicines Some people may know that milk cannot be taken with medicines, but if they are taking osteoporosis medicines, some people may think “It shouldn’t matter, you can also add calcium.” In fact, because milk is rich in calcium, it can not be taken together with osteoporosis drugs, so as not to reduce the efficacy. In addition to osteoporosis drugs, antibiotic drugs such as tetracycline are not suitable for taking. In addition to milk, foods and health foods containing iron, magnesium, calcium and other minerals are not recommended to be taken with medicines, such as iron or calcium tablets. Practice: Because there are many types of medicines that cannot be taken, it is recommended that no matter what medicine you take, it should be separated from milk and mineral health food by 2-4 hours. Fourth, high-potassium foods, such as: bananas, mushrooms, green leafy vegetables & cardiovascular medicines. High-potassium foods can help reduce sodium ions in the body while preventing high blood pressure. It is a very healthy food , Like bananas, kiwis, peaches, muskmelon, custard apple, durian, taro, potato, sweet potato, yam, pumpkin, etc., are very nutritious. However, for people taking cardiovascular drugs, too high potassium ions will also affect the function of the heart, causing high potassium hypertension, but it is easy to make the heart unhealthy. And these high-potassium foods, such as 200g sweet potatoes have 542mg of potassium, to control the daily serving size. How to eat: You can eat it, and you do n’t need to stay away from the medicine for a long time, but you do n’t need to eat too much each time. It is recommended to eat 1-2 kinds a day. 5. Caffeine foods, such as coffee, tea, chocolate & various drugs. Caffeine will act on the central nervous system, so it will affect drugs that also act on the central nervous system. At the same time, caffeine will also cause abnormal metabolism of drugs Let the concentration become higher, which is prone to danger. For example: bronchodilators, antidepressants, sleeping pills, heart medications, blood pressure lowering drugs, etc., are all drugs that often interact with coffee. How to do it: Never use coffee as a medicine, and control the amount of 1-2 cups of 450cc American coffee a day. If you are drinking high-concentration coffee, tea or chocolate, it is best not to exceed 1 cup. Information from the Internet